Finding love online can be a fantastic experience or a fiasco. I've had both. Although the good news is that's how I met my sweetie, the bad news is I went out with a lot of frogs first. There are millions of great people online wanting to connect. I dated some fabulous men that I never would have met otherwise. However, the bad news is there are lots of fakers, weirdoes and those who s-t-r-e-t-c-h the truth. The good news is that I'm here to help you.

Here's how to be cyber - smart:

Remember that Desperado is not your theme song. There are 6 billion people on this planet. There must be at least one person for you. You've got hundreds of services to choose from.

Use the information here to avoid much of the online dating frustration.

I intend to talk about all the stuff you want to know about such as how to find love online, the best and worst sites, online's most wanted and unwanted people, how to get better responses to your ads and emails, and how to move from virtual love to real life love. And, I want to hear from you, about your online experiences and which sites have been good or bad for you and why. Send me an email.

I don't promise to eliminate all your aggravation, but I do hope to make your online dating a whole lot easier. If you don't become more date smart, I hope, at least that you'll date less stupid