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A
woman, more than anything else, wants to be
cherished. And she wants to be with a man who
will cherish her, value her and make her feel
safe.
She
wants a man she can trust. Trust allows her
to be vulnerable and receptive to him.
Women
don't want Mr. Macho, they want Super Hero.
Super Heroes are good guys who are a little
sensitive, can be vulnerable, and are not afraid
to show their feelings.
Super
Heroes know they have feelings and they know
it's okay to have them. They are confident that
they have "the right stuff," which
makes them very attractive to women. Every guy
could be a Super Hero since every girl wants
to make her man her hero.
Most
women want a relationship with a good guy, not
just a Saturday night date or meal ticket. So
what's a good guy?
Someone
who is:
- self-confident
enough to treat a woman like a woman
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honest and listens. He doesn't interrupt her
when she's speaking
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attentive and respectful. He pays attention
to her
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opens doors, pulls out chairs, helps her with
her coat, picks up the checks
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treats women well.
He
genuinely likes women and it shows in everything
he does Despite what women say, deep down they
don't like wimpy men. Let me define wimpy for
you: excessively sensitive, faint of heart,
overly emotional. Women want men to be men -
someone who they fell safe with, who will protect
them, who know that when it's says "women
and children first" there won't even be
a question of who goes first.
Most
men are primarily visual, so they just need
to see that they are valued by women. Women
on the other hand, because they can be visual,
auditory or kinesthetic, don't always see that
a man treasures them. Often, women need to hear
the words to know they are being cherished or
receive kinesthetic cues such as a man doing
something for them or giving them a token of
his affection.
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