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 When
you first meet someone, your heart can think of no one else.
It's "True Love". Then you settle in and deal with daily
routines, schedules, and time demands that can slowly tear apart
your storybook romance. What then? Does this mean it was not true
love?
Tough questions,
but then life and romance are filled with decisions and reactions
based on feelings. Some will say to keep a spiritual approach, this
will ensure everything, others will tell you true love can never
die. This is not all you need do. Romance is like a newly sprouted
plant. It requires nurturing, feeding, and loving care. To much
water and it drowns, to little and it withers and dies. The parallel
here is that too much or too little of anything needed in a relationship,
can and will effect it's survival. Smothering your mate is not good,
neither is ignoring them. And NEVER play with each others emotions.
If you have lost that loving feeling, face them and discuss it.
You could still be able to save the relationship if you are open,
honest and constructive. Simply ranting about your dislikes, will
only add to the burdens already felt.
There are
no easy answers, or quick fixes. A 50% divorce rate is staggering
to say the least. Love and romance are wonderful, but a relationship
takes daily input and work to keep it alive and thriving.
Water your
garden of love daily, and nurture it with care and genuine affection.
Never let weeds sprout and choke it out..!
Of course I
could be wrong, I'm no expert..:)
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